A few things:

First, How can we help?

Second, "What is best for the kids is frequent and equal contact with BOTH parents" was my focus during D. Use that if you want.

Third, Right now is the time for you to determine "What YOU want". You now know what she wants and it is in writing.

We are here for you during this difficult time.

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712