I agree with your timing of "mutual transparency". We have not agreed on the transparency plan but are beginning to reconcile with Retro starting today.

I certainly DID NOT ask her to give up those things. I am now more supportive of her life and activities than I have ever been. This ahs been one of my big 180s. This comment was her mind reading and testing me.

PDT - Thanks for your advice.

NOMAD

M-49
W-48
M-18, T-24
S-12
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12/08-ILYBINILWY
3/09-EA & PA Discovered
4/09-Began DBing
1/10-2nd Bomb PA Fully Disclosed