Calling out the Piecers

[Gnosis]

She feels she's made her apologies and all is well with the world.

Then she has not learned a darned thing, has she?

I on the other hand have reached an impasse with her at the moment and my head won't stop swimming.

Then get busy... GAL. Fix something around your cousin's house.

These are huge issues that came about today and painted an insight to her that as I said, makes me think she still does not see the full impact and severity of what she's done here.

Yup.

Then I myself question her motives at this moment.

I believe she is sincere.

Am I being a fool? Am I so blind? Am I just setting myself (and kids) up for another heartache?

Only if she has not learned her lesson. i.e. You've been teaching her "Easy come, easy go"

Or, is she really that niave to the consequence of her A and honestly thinks "sorry" is all that is required as a remedy?

Yes, she is that naive... and YOU have let her get away with it.

Throughout your entire ordeal Dylan, I've not seen any indication of you letting her stew in her crap and live with the consequences of her actions. This is WHY we were all SCREAMING, "Take it easy! Baby steps, etc."

Just relax. Not all is lost. Pull back. Go dark for a few days. Tell her:

"In light of recent events I need time to think."

"I'm not sure how I feel about you right now."

"I need time to decide what I want."

"W, please leave me alone. I need some space..."

It's time for you to go WAS and let her pursue you.