No one said this was going to be easy. Just LISTEN and VALIDATE wherever you can.
Patience. Be compassionate. The 4C's all the way. She's in pain. Let her experience it. Don't succumb. She will RESPECT you for it. Don't give in to her demands. Hold onto your boundary ENFORCEMENTS firmly.
M:11 | T:12 | Status: Married 4C's of WAS communication: Cool, Calm, Collected and CONFIDENT