Things are going pretty good. Trying to focus on myself and the kids but easier said than done.
My W and I see each other during the kid exchange but that is about it. I am nice but do not really atempt to initiate conversation unless it is about the kids.
Still no mention of the intro. From the reading I have done, most suggest waiting 6 months before intoducing the kids to someone else. We are at 6 months so it will happen soon. She is probably going to wait and see how the family C goes before making her move. I am doing my best to keep it out of mind. It is going to happen and I am prepared for it. It will be emotional but it will not realy change anything for me. I will be nice and support the kids, but not her R with the OM.
I told her this morning via email I want her to push on getting the D done; I want this monkey off my back. I explained to her I no longer want to be married (not sure if this is true or not)but that I was not bitter and that I was looking forward to working with her to raise two loving and beautiful children. So we have been exchanging emails working through some of the D details. Not a fun process but necessary.
