Im glad to hear you are a good"busy" .. keeps the mind going.
Also, im happy to hear you cleared the air with your brother, im sure he will come around, sometimes its like your in a state of shock when this stuff happens and you can't think rationally.
Take care and have fun with the boys!!
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.