sandycay Thanks for the 2x4, they really do help. I'm a fixer/controller and it's hard for me to know when to help him and when not too.
The hardest part for me right is detaching and partcipating in R/D talk every time he brings it up. I really need to learn to tell him not now, I don't want to talk about it.
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09 Confirmed A 1/25/10 Exposed A 1/26/10 H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10
