Separated, new baby, but still hopeful

[newmama]

Well when I came home from Bunco WH was trying to put S down but he was overtired. WH eventually brought him downstairs and said "I like to be sure to get him to sleep before I go. I don't like to leave when he is still awake." Now you know I was thinking "Well if you hadn't left, you could stay up as long as you'd like and make sure he is asleep" but I just said "I know you do. You were trying really hard."

So apparently he went to SIL's house and they were all going to go out to dinner but then SIL and her H left with the boys for a banquet so it was just WH and his stepdad. I kind of thought that was weird, because an hour before, his sister arranged plans for dinner, and then they go to a banquet? Makes me curious about what his stepdad was talking to him about!

To top that, my SIL had asked if she and her stepdad could come visit S today. First I said yes but then when I found out that he would be seeing S last night I made other plans. Well WH said he heard they might be coming over but assured me they didn't have to; that if I felt uncomfortable with it that they could just not come over and he seemed a little uneasy about me seeing stepdad....the day before he seemed sorry that I wouldn't meet him and now it's like he doesn't want me to meet him?

Well lucky for him I have plans for S and I to visit my friend so I won't meet his stepdad this time. I know his real dad way better anyway.

Tomorrow WH sees S from 8 to 4(it is a LOOOOOONG day with a baby if you don't take him somewhere, haha!I hope OW and her kid get really annoyed!) for two Saturdays, then on the 29th takes him overnight on Friday at 6 and returns by 12 on Saturday.