The reason I'm telling you to stir things up is to create the CRISIS. The fantasy life she has created in her mind needs to be destroyed - completely. If even a shred of it lives on she will cling onto it for dear life.
Usually when the OM is faced with the additional choice of having to feed, clothe, house her, console her, comfort her in her hour of need etc... he will pack up and run. This will leave her devastated. She will try come back home... and this is where the "I get it" speech comes into effect. You don't let her back in. From that point forward she needs to put in the effort by showing remorse and commitment. During that time you hold the line by saying, "I'm not sure, I need to think about it, need to figure out what I want... and who's best for me etc"
Are you getting the game plan?
This. ^ Oh, emphatically, all of this. ^
I have seen this work HUNDREDS of times!!!
Puppy
Yeah, Okay & I get it!
M43 W43 D11 S7 M18 T20 WAW is back & trying (no she was lying) Close to callin' it busted but.... watching Whatever the outcome - It was a choice.
