Because she has made the choices - affair, boundary cross, d file, move out etc..;
Now she loses job, does that change any of those decisions?
Does she want to be here or is it because financially she's "locked" in?
I don't want her here if she doesn't want to be here. I thought helping her was a show of my resolve, esp. since discovering that she has talked to OM.
Kinda like " Oh you boundary crossed again, let me help you out the door"
