What your H is going through right now is what I call the "fog". He is not thinking clearly. He has never met this woman but has began an emotional affair with her that makes him feel like she is his "soulmate"....all not true. This is all a fantasy in his head....he has built it to be something it isn't. When the fog clears he will see this. Until then you need to make yourself to be the best person you can be. Marriage takes so much work, and your h has forgotten that. THis "drug" of the ow is very powerful right now...he does truly believe he never loved you....but it is all untrue. I'm so sorry you are dealing with all of this. If you can find a pro marriage individual counselor that would help you right now, as well as talking here. I would avoid talking to your friends about this. You are not alone.
