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The kids don't see me angry at W. I've been defending her to them this entire time, trying to keep their relationship with W intact.


This is not your job. This is HER problem. Let her own it. Be there to support your kids, but your W has to make or break HER R with the kids.

When you try to defend your W, you are really just trying to save your W from the problem SHE has created.

Me 43, S11, D7
M13
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