Jon - I hope you are right that "don't pursue" may not completely apply to me. Puppy is probably going to kick my butt for this, but...

WAW and I are going out for dinner this coming Saturday night - at my request. I suppose it's a date of sorts, but I really just wanted some time to talk to her (not about anything serious) in a neutral location without interruptions or worrying about the kids overhearing things if talk does turn to more serious matters.

I figure we are going to be in each others lives regardless of the outcome and it was time for one of us to extend an olive branch and start the process of healing. And I do know (100% sure) that WAW would some day like to put our marriage back together, so this can't hurt. But at the same time, I am not expecting anything from it.


50 years old.

Ontario, Canada

Loving Marriage #2 with the perfect person.