Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

[Gnosis]

I'm not sure of this one. I think it might be a good idea, but not sure if I just send it out of the blue, or sit on it. If I sit on it, when would be the ideal time to use it?

Sit on it. The ideal time to use it will be when you get back and see her again. You do that face to face and MEAN IT. She needs to see it in your face and body language to believe it.

Is the reason I want to send this to her, to let her know that I am "done", and I "get it"? Or is it to get a reaction from her-to feed my co-dependancy issue? HHmmmm.

The reason you want to send it to her is to make yourself feel better. It will fall on deaf ears and she won't believe it. 90% of the message is communicated with your body language, facial expression and tone of voice.

Remember, at this point you are getting a life, detaching and moving forward. You don't need to say anything because your SILENCE says it all. She is preoccupied in her own little world right now and doesn't care what you are doing because you're too far away to have any influence on her. The "I get it" will have maximum effect when you're in close proximity.

Hope that explains things.