She must be seeing a lawyer...what now?

[January girl]

Awoken,
The papers don't change the reality of your situation...
they simply put them in print form. I remember years ago
finding out "on paper" that my dad had terminal cancer and
I was very freaked out and then I realized that it didn't
change the reality just how I was viewing it.

You are strong. You are a great dad. You will get thru
this and come out the other side.

Also go on that trip this weekend and enjoy every minute of it.
Someday your kids won't want a "family vacation." They
will want to be with friends more. GO AND HAVE FUN!!