Here's my story..midlife crisis/infidelity

[January girl]

I DID IT!! I set a boundary and he consented.

Basically he called me this morning and said he was going out
to "play pool" this evening if it was ok with me and I had
nothing going on. I said that I was no longer going to enable
him to date his mistress on the weekends. I told him that as
long as we live under the same roof that was no longer going to
be acceptable behavior. I know this was a small step but
at least I'm not standing frozen in place.