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[awest1217]

Thank you for the thoughts. I text H today and told him I am goign to do what Kemper said and keep the $600 and told him why and then give the extra $100 to S. Still no response, but I feel I did my part by telling him. I also told him I still feel uneasy about taking the money at all, but that is it.

The other thing is once again last night, I was looking at one of my sister's FB status and H commented on it. I don't get him. He can comment on my sister's status, but not talk to me. The status was about my nephew and H said how he is excited to have him at the same school as him next year. WHAT?!?!?! Background: My sister's family is moving up here from TN and they are looking to move into a place where my nephews will go to school where H works. He is acting like everything is A-Okay with everyone except me. I DON'T GET IT! My nephews are very vocal and since they are young they don't have the don't say that button so when they move here and see that H is not living with me and S they will say something to him or their friends, which will bring it up at school and start this whole mess over. Plus they are not going to like him too much, especially the older one whom H will see more. Either way...won't contact me or see S, but he gives us money and then talks to my family about how he can't wait to see them next year at school. I DON'T GET IT!!!!!!!

I know I shouldn't let it bother me, but once again I am trying so hard to move on, and he just keeps popping up. I just want him to either be in our lives (I am planning on acting as an X where we talk about S and he sees S and that is it), or just completely stays out which includes not talking to my family. AHHHHH!