Because she has made the choices - affair, boundary cross, d file, move out etc..;
Now she loses job, does that change any of those decisions?
Does she want to be here or is it because financially she's "locked" in?
I don't want her here if she doesn't want to be here. I thought helping her was a show of my resolve, esp. since discovering that she has talked to OM.
Kinda like " Oh you boundary crossed again, let me help you out the door"
BTW, She told me she didn't want my help, she is picking up the keys @ 7 am.
M43 W43 D11 S7 M18 T20 WAW is back & trying (no she was lying) Close to callin' it busted but.... watching Whatever the outcome - It was a choice.
