Right I know I sorta asked this once before but Im not sure is I got over what I was trying to say properly.

H is freinds with my sister, he wasnt or hadnt been for a long time but reconnected with her over the summer when he was awal.

One of the agreements with him coming back was transparency about this relationship, one I didnt trust her to not be trying to poach my H, but also she has never been trustworthy, honest and is now not speaking to me and apart from relaying information when my parents were ill has no intention of working out our relationship/friendship. Right to the point, I know I cant say who he can be friends with but I can ask for transparency and her friendship to be with both of us, the thing is Im finding stuff out after its happened and H is obviously uncomfortable when he is caught talking with her on FB and also I cant see anything on his FB. I am sure he realsies she has no intention of making friends with me and is pretending he is either unsure of her intentions,its all the twitching and wiggling that is making me very suspicious. He digs his heels in last nigth wen I try to sort this out an refuses to speak about it, last night he turned his back on me but ignored my tears and only tried to comfort me when I said I was going downstairs as I wouldnt sleep, it is obviousl he doesnt want this to threaten us but seems unable to let it go..

Any advice would be much apprecaited folks sorry its a bit long winded

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W 47
H 47
M 24
T 30

Once lost but now found and happily married again!