So, S16 did send back "Party Tea Here". They then had a texting conversation which ended in W asking S16 if he wanted to go to her house and stay the night. S16 said he didn't want to so I said just a polite "No Thanks" would suffice.

We had out party tea and who should show up at round 8:30 but W.

She stayed for a couple of hours and we all just chatted about nothing really. Caught her sneaking a few sideways glances at me too.

Overall not a bad night, she was a bit quiet but overall we all were OK with it and no-one said anything remotely R'ish.

Baby steps, maybe the first one.


H: 44
W: 42
Married: 23 years
Bomb: 16/07/2009
PA Confirmed: 16/01/2010
Over it & working on ME: Feb'ish 2010