So, S16 did send back "Party Tea Here". They then had a texting conversation which ended in W asking S16 if he wanted to go to her house and stay the night. S16 said he didn't want to so I said just a polite "No Thanks" would suffice.
We had out party tea and who should show up at round 8:30 but W.
She stayed for a couple of hours and we all just chatted about nothing really. Caught her sneaking a few sideways glances at me too.
Overall not a bad night, she was a bit quiet but overall we all were OK with it and no-one said anything remotely R'ish.
Baby steps, maybe the first one.
H: 44 W: 42 Married: 23 years Bomb: 16/07/2009 PA Confirmed: 16/01/2010 Over it & working on ME: Feb'ish 2010