Thanks wholeagain, all good advice. I'm back on track for my goals. Newcomer is just that and I don't know her at all so I won't give up on a M, even though I was the LBS, for a fantasy.


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Me; 38
W; 34
1 4yr old S
Married 4.5 yrs, together 9 yrs
Bomb; 15 June 2007
Holiday together Sept 2008; My Dad dies Nov 2008; reconcliation fails Nov 2008