H suddenly moved out 10 days ago...I'm devastated

[flowmom]

Thanks for the replies mb28 and BiBi. The support really helps right now.

The one advice that I keep hearing and it does seem to help me is:
Don't believe anything H says and only half of what you see.
This seems to help me when he says stuff to hurt me or that he has no intent on coming home and is ready to file.

I'll have to remember that. I need a way to absorb his matter-of-factly discussing our divorce when I am still in shock from his moving out.

BiBi, I like what you wrote about authenticity and DBing. It's time to get really clear on what's right for me.