Just a quick drive by but I did notice that you admitted to him that one of your past bad behaviors was controlling.
That said it's controlling to send him ads for an apartment. That's his business and he needs to take care of it. Let him deal with his issues. I am not trying to 2x4 you but it is seen as controlling to the WAS if you suggest or help them with stuff like that.
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too