W, you realize you're not going to have any time with the kids for two and half weeks?! And this is after you BEGGED me not to take them anywhere after Christmas because you couldn't bear the thought of being away from them?
Reworded: Our children are just about to face one of the most traumatic events of their lives. Do you think your leaving for 2 1/2 weeks is wise? What kind of message do you think you're giving them?
And how are you paying for all this? You must have plenty of money, so I don't think you need the increase in support I was offering.
You have no rights to demand explanations from her. The above sounds very "whining amd hurt" rephrase to:
First you tell me you cannot afford mediation and now you have the funds for a vacation? In light of these new developments, I'd like you to reimburse me for half the costs of the mediation and as of now am withdrawing my offer for increased support
Also, know that if OM is in any way involved in this, you've just lost any chance of ever getting the kids passports, since you obviously lied right to my face when you said it was over and you weren't involved with him any more, and proved I can't trust you to be truthful with me."[/quote]
TOO whiny again... rephrase:
If you persist with your vacation plans I will need a contact number for you 24/7 along with the address of all the places you are staying in case I need to contact you for emergencies. You have proven yourself to be a compulsive liar and a cheat, so my trust in you is BELOW zero. Should I find out you're still involved in any way, means or form with OM you can kiss the kids passports goodbye.
Hope this helps.
Last edited by Gnosis; 01/15/1005:11 AM.
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