Am I Ready for This?

[glamgirl]

Thank you Upside. I am actually doing well. Once I let go and moved on life got a whole lot easier. I too had to realize that my h was never coming home. I was on him when are you moving back, what is it going to take, yada yada yada, now it doesn't matter.

I actually have a much better R with my h now. We are in it for the kids. We are both adults and realize that some things are just meant to be. Not neccessarily the way I wanted it to go, but the realization like you said is I can't fix my h, nor can I make him come home and be with me. Once I came to that conclusion, was when life started to fall into place.

I do believe my h is still a good guy, just not the guy for me. We differ in values and the bottom line is I didn't make my h happy. Now my philosophy is that you marry for life and you make it work, but I can't put that on someone that doesn't have the same feelings and thoughts about marriage.

Life does get better it just takes awhile!