Kemper, I had a similar phone call about 6 weeks ago, do you think she got a little taste of what D will be like. I mean both the kids and your not around, and if she were to relocate far away you aren't around the corner, you are hours away? Too, bad she isn't staying longer, I know you miss your kids, but maybe, just maybe she started to think about the future a little instead of living in the moment.
I think you are handling everything fine and did a great job on the phone. It will be interesting to see how she is when she gets back home.
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