ROFL... Spring is a couple of months away... and LA has always been one of the cities on my list of things to do. Sounds promising. Don't mind being the designated driver and I can have tons of fun without alcohol!
GAL.... find a way! There's the new life. I have been having a blast this last week. of course, I have been to every Wii gaming night that any and all friends have been having.
And ya know, a friend brings a friend etc.... I am meeting new people. Funny thing is, most know my sitch and the new people I don't know ask Q's because they have heard things from another friend.... its funny but I talk to them about things...
I have been doing a lot of reading.... self help books, books to try and understand my W (u know... woman), and I AM LEARNING... but here is the funny... there are a lot of woman that show up to these things.... they think I am the best thing since flat bread, and flat bread is pretty amazing when you think about it. Imagine a slice of ham slammed between 2 huge boulders of bread that need I mention would be as hard as a rock... I'm thinking Viking types... Thor and the huge mallet he carries, poor bastard beating the jeeebies out of a ball of bread because he can bite it.... sorry, off subject....
But... these people think I am great, and have been asked out a couple of times. Good for my ego. But even funnier is the fact that when I tell them I Love my W (even though she is doing what she is doing) it makes them weird and now I got them chasing me all over the dangedoplace.
So now, I am afraid to play the Wii game, sitting at home trying to hammer me out a ham sandmich.... lol
Not ready for the dating thing yet.... Just patiently waiting for W to figure things out... Don't tell Steve McQueen I am waiting....lol
Oh, found out W is back in counceling. Got a bill inm the mail today where she has been going... that's a good baby step...
Wish you luv,luv.
I hope you find a smile somewhere. If not, eat a boulder sandwich... that will change you thought pattern for a little bit! hee hee
Thanks so much for this Pat. I know I need to GAL and I haven't! This is key for me! I gotta pick myself up. I think I'm ready now. I just don't wanna be sad anymore.
M44 H41 M20 T23 3 older teens Bomb Nov 09 "i'm not happy" EA Nov 09 w/coworker Another PA in Mar 10 I Filed Apr 10 D final Dec 10
Here is what we will do... when I come to Long Beach to visit with my cousin you and I are going to get together. We are going to shop and have lunch and look all fabulous. Then we are going to ask your H to meet us. We are going to let him know WE have decided we are sick of his BS and unless he shapes up he can ship out. Then we are going to take our fancy looking selves out on the town and have fun! If your H has something to say about it he will have to wait until WE are done having fun and then perhaps we will consider listening to what he has to say.
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Wow - a DB'er actually in my part of town? I'm so there!
M44 H41 M20 T23 3 older teens Bomb Nov 09 "i'm not happy" EA Nov 09 w/coworker Another PA in Mar 10 I Filed Apr 10 D final Dec 10
PatPat - I am going in the spring. Do you like baseball? I LOVE IT. We can go to a Dodger's game and get a Dodger's Dog.
My H loved baseball too. He and I almost went to every stadium. In fact, Dodger stadium was the last one we hit before the bomb. I heart Joe Torre!
LA is fun! I haven't been in a few years but I used to go several times a year and lived there for two summers in college. Luv - gear up, we are comin'!
Aww - this kinda makes me sad because me and my H also have a dream about visiting stadiums around the states. We both love football and baseball.
M44 H41 M20 T23 3 older teens Bomb Nov 09 "i'm not happy" EA Nov 09 w/coworker Another PA in Mar 10 I Filed Apr 10 D final Dec 10
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