I count about two months that I have been very dim for X, communicating only with regard to our D.

I did this for myself, to help me heal, and I think it has been helpful. I am rebuilding a social life now and that feels good.

I got some info that made me worry that X will move away from here w/OW. It worries me because of our D. I do not think that X is happy but I am beginning to not care.

D has been not thrilled about going to X's lately. She clings to me a lot.


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D