Having a great time at the new job. X has been upped his nasty emails this past week or so. I made the mistake of responding/defending myself a couple of times, which never helps. He emailed me today re: his meeting with my therapist once: it was very awkward having your therapist dispute the things you had conveyed to me as having been said by her including the fact that she never told you to take any specific course of action. she also said that you have a problem accepting responsibility for your actions. that is consistent with you blaming your lawyer for what she has said/written Do you really think my therapist said that about me? I have a problem accepting responsibility. As I recall I think I was taking on too much responsibility/guilt for our breakup the first year...
Remember the source...your soon to be ex. We all know he is an a$$. I am sure he is feeling particularly bad about himself and thus he is putting some of his feelings on to you. Chin up hon. You are doing great. Oh, but quit replying to his e-mails unless they have to do with the kids.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
I know! I didn't respond to yesterday's or todays, so doing better. I had 2 days this past week where I messed up, and it really drags down my PMA. Only one month to go!
Did you sign a release for your therapist to talk with him? Even if you did, I don't think she could tell him "you have trouble with responsibility." Sounds like he is just spewing....
I'm so glad xh doesn't have access to email. Makes my life easier. He can only send short texts.....saves me from listening to his drivel most of the time.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
Well, Karen, your H is a real piece of work. Why on earth would he even want to see your IC? And who the H*ll does he think he's fooling, putting inflammatory words in the mouth of someone who has their professional integrity at stake and would never jeopardize that to say such things. What a butthead!
Hi Karen, I agree with Donna, your therapist cant say anything personal about your therapy to anyone who isnt directly involved in your case. Not your mom, daughter, STBXH, no one.
I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...
I was thinking about what mishka said....what if you closed your email account (time to start fresh) and if stbxh wants to contact you about the KIDS he can text or call. That way, if he starts spewing you can hang up rather than have to read it...he likes that he can leave msgs for you and bug you.
Makes my life easier. He can only send short texts.....saves me from listening to his drivel most of the time.