my W doesn't regret her affair

[motherof3]

I understand the fear/emotion all to well. Every day I have to ask myself.

"Do I really want to be in an R with someone who doesn't love me?" Don't I deserve better?

I know the right answers, but it is hard for me to keep this in perspective.

Unfortunately you will never 'get' her to to anything. She has to do this all on her own.