Moving would be nice, but I don't think I can until the market picks up for one and then maybe when my son turns 18 in a year and a half. Next town over is 50 miles away. Not going to do that to him now. Plus I would lose my A** in my home right now.
I am doing better. Hardly talk to exh at all anymore. Just once a day and thats it. Today he sent a text when we were out asking to stop by. I said we werent home. Not his day anyway.
Obviously not many people put up boundaries with exh. When they do he gets nasty. Oh well.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!