Kevin my exMIL is a very devoute Catholic. She goes to mass every single day. She has been married now 4 times. Her first 2 husbands died and the 3rd figured out she was as loony as her kids so he bailed and D her. She got an annulment through the church and is now remarried again. Its a process and does take almost a year or so, but it can be done. There are alot of divorced people in the Catholic church. If this is your holdup with the D, then you can seek an annulment.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!