Originally Posted By: futureunknown
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Look, she crossed the boundaries, and she knows it. Now, she wants you to be pleasant about it. What world is she living on? Forgiveness takes time. And it needs a person capable of being sorry for what they did. Note: your Subject Title. Why would you need to forgive something she doesn't regret.


Exactly. That has been my problem all along, hence the name of the thread. She doesn't regret what she did, she doesn't want to regret it, and she doesn't want to give me the satisfaction of an apology for something she feels no remorse over.

I am sick of feeling so unvalued. I am sick of feeling like I need to work so hard to get scraps of appreciation. I am sick of feeling like I need to watch everything I say for fear I make the situation worse. I am getting so much more from other parts of my life, and I think it's time I left all this crap behind and put my all into what makes me feel good about myself.



I agree with what this guy said


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