I don't post much on db anymore but I stop by this thread to check the news. It's like a bad car accident; I don't want to see it but I look anyway.
Your previous marriage difficulties are going to look like a holiday in Tahiti compared to the WWIII you (plural) are creating in this divorce if you (plural) continue this fighting. Seriously, why do you (SP) give a sh-- what she says or thinks anymore? Why? Turn around and walk away from this crap. Spend the rest of your days with people who value you.
"My actions are my only true belongings. I cannot escape the consequences of my actions. My actions are the ground upon which I stand." Thich Nhat Hanh
