my W doesn't regret her affair

[BeingMe]

Look, she crossed the boundaries, and she knows it. Now, she wants you to be pleasant about it. What world is she living on? Forgiveness takes time. And it needs a person capable of being sorry for what they did. Note: your Subject Title. Why would you need to forgive something she doesn't regret.

She is manipulating you. I can only assume, so that she can get whatever she wants with just a smile and a little bit of pleasant interaction. She didn't tell you that she was thinking of getting back --- because she wasn't. She lied. Why didn't she say so before you had to set up your boundaries and start moving on?

You don't see this very clearly because you are too close to the sitch. But, we on this remote forum, who only go by what you say, can see it. If you are telling the truth, then she is not. She is playing the game of getting as much out of Future as she can before signing the divorce papers.

In my opinion, of course. Take care.