I've been telling myself that all afternoon. I can't control him. He is making these choices and there his to live with not mine.

Great advice...great advice, as always. You are right, I've been the mother and the father pretty much from 4 months on....our son is 2.5 now. I'm use to it, use to doing it by myself. Ohh, man put so well "Disney parent".

I'm going to be busy until Sunday afternoon. So have no plans to get in touch with him. What I feel like doing is smashing the cupcakes right in his face as you said. Selfish. He is a martyr.

Ohhh....feels better to get it off my chest.
Stay away from litigation and family law...those are the two things I've learned.


Me: 31
H: 30
Son 2.5

Minnesota