was up there...now im down here.

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undrdg,

I envy you. I will soon be divorced myself and she is moving out this weekend. Sounds like you have more than a good chance at reconciliation.

In my case she told me we could still be friends but "on her terms only". Whatever that means. Right now she is acting like anything but a friend to me so I guess this wont be for a while and take a lot of PMA from me towards her to work.

I still wonder if being her friend after the divorce will even help me if she is in MLC or if going dark would be better. At least right now I don't think there is an OM, although Im not 100% sure about this.

I also have a bit of jealousy and I am working on that. If she finds an OM then it may rear it's ugly head but I doubt it. My friends and family are keeping me grounded right now.

Im too new and emotional to give advice but I would say that dday hit the nail on the head.

God I envy you undrdg. Wish I was at that stage. Ill probably never get there and have to move on to something new.