I learned that you cannot make a person be a parent. Right now, your H is so full of himself that he cannot even see that he is hurting your S.
Okay niceties over. Is it fair? Hell no. The guy is being a total jerk to deserves nothing but to get the cupcake smashed in his face.
But...
Its not going to teach your S anything.
The only thing you can do is not mention Daddy, and that way if he does show up, or allows you to show up there, it can be a surprise for your son.
You are going to find yourself being mother and father right now. Trust me, it sucks big time, but someone has to be the parent. That has fallen solely on your shoulders. And if the M does not resolve, you will get to a point where he will see your S, but you will still have to be the real parent. He will be the Disney parent.
My suggestion? Don't speak to him for a few days. Let him suffer in his own guilt, trust me he will feel it. He will do more harm to himself than you can do to him.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
