Gina - the last I saw was shortly after she had you served. My heart really went/goes out to you. Ill have to catch up tonight.

I'm glad to see that you're handling it.

Just so you know, it's likely that she will move out and still not be able to find what she is looking for. I think my W may be going through that. She turned "Getting out" into her holy Grail of happiness so there was no way it can live up to her expectadions. That's just my viewpoint. I could be all wet.

Even if she feels that she made a mistake, i dont know if she could ever admit it after a year of fighting for "her freedom." I wonder if I would want her back if the opportunity came anyway.

There's one possible scenario for your future.


Me: 35
W: 31
S:9
M: 10 years
Together 13
MySitch - Ups & Downs
She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.