Eventually you have to feel the pain. There is no way around it. As much as you try and make this about your W, your kids, the OM its really about you. Good news is you have 100% control over yourself.
Kevin, I learned this from you. Thank you!
Very much agreed. At some point you will need to accept its over..at least for now. Feel it, greive it, and get past it. My exh is the most manipulating man on this planet and its a constant battle, but honestly being proactive and not letting him run all over me anymore feels so much better than just waiting for the next hit.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
