I want to tell her to go some place else with her friend, but I think that would be too volatile right now. I don't know if it's the RIGHT thing to do.
I want to go sking with my kids, but it's expensive. S13 is feeling guilty that mom isn't coming. I don't know if it's the RIGHT thing to do.
I'm feeling unclear right now; sigh!
You feel unclear b/c you are thinking like her husband. So, don't. At this point, she has, for all intents and purposes, left you. So what she may say/do don't matter anymore.
As far as staying at the house, if that is what you want to do, then do it. To he!! with what SHE thinks, says, does. HER PROBLEM, not yours.
