GIMA,

Listen to Pilot and Trusting.

You're in Newcomers right?

That a good place to start, you're also going to get alot of advice, some of it conflicts. Alot of it is going to be "Stand up for yourself, be a hardass."

Which is good and fine, right up until you start thinking your wife is in MLC. If your wife is in MLC then the game changes. Some of the advice applies some of it doesn't. Conflict and confrontation with a MLC spouse and they squirt away like you were trying to pick up mercury with tweezers.

Check out the resources at the top of the MLC forum like Pilot suggested. And like TF said, they have general commonalities, but all are indivdual and specific.

You will not get as many replies here, that's a fact, but they advice will be geared toward helping you deal with your wife's MLC. The advice in other places WILL conflict with MLC advice.

OK?



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