Still not sure if she is going through MLC or not. Many signs but they differ.
Possible Pro MLC Signs:
Four years ago she wanted an expensive convertible sports car. Like an idiot, I got it for her for Christmas with my life savings.
Our only Son grew up and moved out two years ago.
Recently her father died. She seemed almost unmoved by this but so did the rest of the family.
The note she left on my pillow to come talk to her about divorce was formated like a cold and impersonal business letter.
Wanted a divorce ASAP after her decision. She can't get rid of me fast enough it seems.
Changing her name back to fist (deceased) husbands. Never gave a reason for this.
Took her wedding ring off.
Kicked both me and my Son off of her facebook friends list.
Spends long hours on facebook and on cellphone with all her old high school boyfriends and girlfriends.
Very guarded of her cellphone. She even takes it with her into the bathroom. I actually picked it up one time when she had a lapse. She saw me and went ballistic.
Possible Non MLC Signs:
Does not try to dress younger.
Does not go on crazy spending sprees.
Is amicable in our divorce and is not fighting me for anything. Even letting me have the house.
Me:48 W:55 M:22 T:23 Bomb:19Nov09 S:15Jan10 D:11Feb10 EA:Confirmed on 20Apr10 Fast track to her divorcing me