I will admit that I haven't read up on your sitch but I'm not so sure you crashed and burned ...

Originally Posted By: DDogs
I'm am agitated at this point and I call W on this and tell her, "No, it's not we,, it's you who have initiated the D, it's you who no longer wants to work on the R." "don't tell the kids that I am an agreeable party to this"


While I would never support saying this in front of your children, I think you're perfectly within your rights to say it to your W, particularly in counseling. Sometimes I see on this board that people, particularly LBS's, are afraid to stand up for themselves. And lord knows, that doesn't make for healthy relationships.

Everybody hurts. It's part of life. Don't miss the good stuff.