I agree 100% with you C-Bart. I actually thanked my W at the start of my sitch for the wakeup call which has allowed me to also enter the greatest growth period of my life.

We all would have rather had our S say the M wasn't working so that together we could work on the R/M. However, based on the majority of sitchs I have read one S goes out of the M and has an A.

If I could have one wish granted it would be that the A never happened but everything else did because I am so thankful for the wakeup call. I have been a better Dad and a better person because of this.

M 33 | W 34 | Kids: S4, S3
M: 5/28/05
Bomb: 8/22/09
EA: 8/1/09 | PA 12/26/09
W L: 10/21/09
M L: 11/16/09 | 12/09 to file SA
W & Boys Move Out: 3/14/10