The family C session sounds good.

However, in my opinion (and you know what they say about opinions) you need to stop with the mind games. You are investing energy and thoughts into something you can't control. I know you know this but you need to stop focusing on your W and OM.

Just know that your R/M is dead and was dead the day she dropped the bomb. Move on with your life, focus on YOU, what YOU can control, your children and leave the rest to God.

I would love to know what the C says about shielding them from the truth.


M 33 | W 34 | Kids: S4, S3
M: 5/28/05
Bomb: 8/22/09
EA: 8/1/09 | PA 12/26/09
W L: 10/21/09
M L: 11/16/09 | 12/09 to file SA
W & Boys Move Out: 3/14/10