Thanks C-Bart. I have read that same advice time and again on the forum. I guess the part that I am currently confused about is since I proceeded forward with legal actions is it still on her to explain? I would love to work on our R/M but wasn't going to stand by while she had an A and also kept the luxury of being M.

So my W and boys are in GA for a couple of days. Based on our lawyers writing up a document for her to go she had to let me know when they got where they were going, have the boys call one night to talk with me, and she needs to let me know when they leave to come home on Friday.

Well she let me know when they got there and the boys called last night to say goodnight. The thing that is confusing me right now is my W sent an email with a picture of our youngest son and the email said "L00k daddy a piranha!". I am confused as to why she would even send an email knowing that we are on the verge of separation and she has no interest in working on the R/M.

I know not to read into it but it really confused me when I saw it. I have no intention of replying to the email.


M 33 | W 34 | Kids: S4, S3
M: 5/28/05
Bomb: 8/22/09
EA: 8/1/09 | PA 12/26/09
W L: 10/21/09
M L: 11/16/09 | 12/09 to file SA
W & Boys Move Out: 3/14/10