Still Wandering

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During individual MC I asked how and when we will discuss her EAs and PAs, since we have had NO discussions about them except her brief admission at that one time. MC asked what intel I had and how I got it. I told MC about reading her e-mails. The MC says this is a lie that I have to admit to W and get in the open.

I question that disclosure on my part. I want her full disclosure about the EAs and PAs and then I'll be open about my intel.

Are e-mails private or considered to be like post cards in that anyone can read them without one's privacy being invaded? I didn't hack or steal any passwords, the info. is open on her phone or PC.

If you want the info. private you should encrypte it or not EM or TM it, anybody should know that.

I have no problem with my wife reading any of my EM or TM and due to the suspicions that I had I'm glad I read hers. We teach our son not to TM or EM anything they don't want the world to see. As parents we will check his EM and TM just because we are good parents.

Please reply with the right or wrong on this issue. Does the end justify the means? I think I would do it all again in order to protect and save my family and marriage.

Any thoughts?