You have swung hard to the other side. Could be that you are angry and it is clouding your thoughts. Nothing wrong with being angry. A lot of LBS get a power surge after they set boundaries and see the results, don't lose sight of your goals. Seek balance, compassion, wisdom, discernment, love and awareness. Be strong enougth to let her go while at the same time forgiving her. That's real love. When she feels you do that then watch how she acts.
I understand COACH - and you've been with me along this journey and if you can remember it's ONLY been when I swing 2x4's that I make a dent.
I am not angry, I promise. Last nite she seduced me ( came out to the shop locked the door- powerful stuff), anyway- I allowed it and it was wonderful, but this morning, when she started in on the "I'm scared talk"I kept my boundary.
She has options and those = choices. She knows that -I'll gaurantee she knows it.
M43 W43 D11 S7 M18 T20 WAW is back & trying (no she was lying) Close to callin' it busted but.... watching Whatever the outcome - It was a choice.
