One mistake I think I made was to tell the kids that it was a mutual decision. If you W is making the choice to move out I'd be clear that it is her choice. She owns this. Don't shield her from it. Let her explain the situation and then you ensure your kids that you will always be there for them.
_________________________ Me-41 W-39 M-15 yrs T-17 yrs D-12 S-9 S-8 B 5/08 S 1/09
